Trust God no matter what. Don't get caught in your surroundings. Don't drown in the waves crashing around you. And most importantly do not let people speak into your life. Seek God and Godly counsel. Stay in the word and guard your heart, mind and soul. Keep your eyes fixed on Him and if you feel weak or scared, grab your bible. Turn on the inspirational channel. There are so many good solid teachings on TBN and others. I love to watch Charles Stanley, Joyce Meyer and my own pastor, Dr. Joseph Bruce Sofia on Changed by the Word (check your local listings..he is fabulous!). I like the whole word, not just the fluff. Yes the fluff is nice to hear but it is not the core of what I need. I need truth and PB gives it to you real. I have been told I am "direct" but I rather be direct and honest in love than bear false testimony and advice. I am accountable to God and what I say to those that come to me is very important. I seek His word each and every morning before anything is spoken here on this blog and there are many days an entire message is typed and He directs me to the delete button because the words written were not His, but mine. So rest assured when I am late getting out the message it is because I seek Him first. He just wants you to trust Him and not yourself or those around you. Sometimes as painful as it is we need to inventory our "circle of friends/family". We need to surround ourselves with positive and giving believers and not the constant selfish takers who speak their "junk" in to your life. I am very aware of other's motives and thoughts and when they speak to me. "Oh I could never do that" or "I could never think of changing jobs, I make too much money" or "I would be a nervous wreck if I were you" or "when I was your age, I...." and it can go on and on and on. Sooner or later when we digest this stuff, we can start to believe it and it simply weighs us down. I worked with someone years back that I counted as one of my dearest friends and confidants. She always was professing how loyal she was to me and how she always "had my back". I was absolutely devastated when it was revealed to me years later how negative she was and nasty and always complaining about the office, schedule, hours, workload, and she would go on and on and on. I would tell her to think positive, look at the blessings of it all, keep focused on what she did have, not what she didn't but it was no use. I one day watched her walk down the hall with another co worker spreading more negative thoughts and my heart sunk, my stomach was a dark pit and I knew she no longer someone God would have me trust or confide in. I was so heart broken but He revealed to me her true heart and I was thankful that He protected me from her words because sooner or later her words may have begun to sink in to me and God was saying "Absolutely not, not this child" and it was not shortly thereafter she was laid off and I never heard nor seen her again. The point is God wants us to trust Him, rely only on Him and be very careful who you talk to and who you allow in to your home, into your life. Just keep Him in the center and He will guide, reveal, and send angels to you so no worries. God has got you in the palm of His hand. Trust in God.
Proverbs 3:6